The people are always speaking of things that are values, desires, beliefs Contents Of them! ‘ ‘ verdades’ ‘ that these people they express, are ‘ ‘ truths of them ‘ ‘ , and many times, them do not have no affinity with ‘ ‘ the form of pensar’ ‘ of the person who is listening to it Therefore if it does not distress with negative thoughts regarding the Others Or of itself exactly! Unhappyly, and erroneamente, we evaluate, we perceive and we judge the people in its behaviors, and understand that in fact, they are the personal expressions ‘ ‘ autnticas’ ‘ of the thoughts, emotions and feelings of them But, that is a superficial vision! We are unaware of ‘ ‘ the reasons ntimas’ ‘ of the people, its motivations (some, until unconscious for proper they) we do not know of its psychic and emotional instances Also, which ‘ ‘ they are foras’ ‘ that they are acting, acting in that person In that circumstance We ignore, also, the mental contents of this person, decurrent of its personal description, its physical health and mental, etc. We believe that we withhold the TRUTH on that person When we ignore our proper TRUTH!
We, defective human beings are beings, imperfects tense, contradictory For times, radical, extremistas, inflexible, rancorosos, are amargurados, aggressive and implacable! For times we are affectionate, tolerant, flexible, comprehensive. We reproduce in our actions, attitudes and behaviors, ‘ ‘ modelos’ ‘ of our infancy: the form with that we were educated, treated, servant, loved (or not loved) for our parents The interpersonal environment, school, contacts, our real infantile experiences (or imagined). We, compulsively, develop ‘ ‘ transferences emocionais’ ‘ refusals we project in the Other (s), what it bothers in them, attributing to the Others What ‘ ‘ we ourselves we are ‘ ‘ Or, then, we are being influenced or vitimados for our personal difficulties gifts in our present or passed life One remembers: You do not read the thoughts of the Others nor DECIPHERS the emotions and the feelings of them! Not if it loses in feelings of concern, diffidence, doubt, anger or rancor Trying to understand or to legitimize Feelings of the Others, if defending of imaginary things! It has been oriented for its proper TRUTH, without attacking or diminishing the others, finding that ALL are maken a mistake alone you are certain! Same that it does not seem clearly; ‘ ‘ the people are as they obtain to be, want to be, like to be or understand that they need to be ‘ ‘ If thus she was not, they would look the half ones to change itself proper!.